June 2008 Archives

People often ask what it takes to become a better lover. In many cases, this question is based on a premise that there are specific techniques and abilities that can be learned and that mastering these techniques will guarantee success as a lover. This misguided belief has spawned a huge industry - sex manuals, how-to books and instructional videos - as if sexual prowess could be developed with a paint-by-numbers approach. There is nothing wrong with sex manuals and instructional materials. There is great value in learning techniques and developing skills, but skills and techniques can only take you so far.

Ok so you want to know about us women...  Well what better way to learn about women then from a woman.  So lets begin.  When it comes to knowing your woman's body are you in touch with all her sweet spots.  That is, are you enjoying all that your woman has to offer?  Or do you just stick to what you know? Well here are a few spots that you might like to try if you have not done so already.

As much as we'd like to think we could replace Adriana Lima if she ever called in sick, we don't all have the figure of a Victoria's Secret model--some of us have bigger boobs. And just like clothing, certain lingerie styles fit certain body types better than others. Luckily, the guys at Debonair magazine put together a lingerie-buying guide, complete with pictures. (If you're unsure what a woman with large breasts looks like, there is an example.) The guide is actually really useful for women--Victoria's Secret can be a little intimidating when you don't shop for fancy underthings as much as you shop for shoes.




Debonaire Magazine's Visual Guide To Lingerie Shopping

So, it's Friday night and the cute guy you met at a party last weekend asked you out on a date--you really like him and really want to overcome all the first date barriers to score an ever so elusive second date. Well there are lots of precautions to take to get there, but I will help you out with the first, which is perhaps the most important. You guessed it: Wardrobe Choice! Since this is a first date, let's consider a standard scenario: dinner at a restaurant whose ambiance falls somewhere in between local bar and 5-star hot spot, followed by a movie. The combo-date will give us a lot of leeway to examine several possibilities. Let's look to Cameron Diaz for inspiration.

Many men want to know, "How can I last longer in the bedroom".  I need more staying power.  *If you have a medical problem with premature ejaculation (ejaculation before it is desired), your doctor is the first person you should see, as there are medical causes for this.  If you want some non medical advice on things the average Joe can do to be the best he can be, then here goes...

Importance of staying power. If a man satisfies himself, without satisfying his woman, then he will find that she will lose interest in sex.  You will eventually be replaced, at least in her fantasies, if not worse.  So you owe to each other as a couple to work on it.  Openly, honestly, and discreetly, as a loving couple.

The latest U.S. Census has been released and there's news! First, what's good: Divorce rates have leveled off in the last few years--Hooray! But they still suck--Boo! Seventy-percent of couples who married after 1970 made it to their tenth anniversary, but, unfortunately, many marriages are ending in divorce after the first decade. Still, the experts think that the increased number of divorces in the last 30 years has a little less to do with people being cheaters and liars and scammers and flakes and quitters and more to do with the fact that in the '50s--when only weirdos did it--divorce was harder to get, expensive, and majorly frowned upon. Chances are those couples were totally miserable, too. Nowadays, the potential that your blissfully sweet (for now) relationship could go kaput is just another inevitable part of getting married in the first place, like dwindling sex, growing beer bellies, and the Crate & Barrel catalog. And with divorce comes something marriage just doesn't offer--upgrades.
U.S.A Today

When men have affairs, they tend to be motivated by sex -- new sex, more sex, different sex. Women cheat for many reasons: companionship, romance, more security, and, of course, sex. But are men's motivations really that simple? No. Even for men, cheating is far more complex.

Are you sexually tongue tied?  Can you really open up to your partner and tell them just what you want? Read on if you would like to learn how to open up the lines of communication for talking about sex.

Now  for most couples in this day and age, they are not entirely happy with their sex lives.  What is it that they are looking for?  If you ask yourself this question I am sure that you could come up with an answer.  If not a whole answer at least the start of something that you are feeling.  So what they are seeking could be more passionate sex, more interesting sex or just plain more of everything? 

Have you ever been blindsided by a breakup? Well, we don't want that to ever happen to you again. That's why we're presenting you with these dating deal breakers, reasons he might break up with you, all-star dating advice from the guys at AskMen.com. Some of the dating deal breakers they list are obvious. Some aren't. But either way, it never hurts to keep dating tips and dating advice from guys in your back pocket.