So, you want the inside scoop on the big O. Well, first let's find out
what a female's orgasm is. According to Masters and Johnson, along with
its chaotic effects on other muscles, orgasm causes contractions of the
uterus, vagina, and rectal sphincter at .8-second intervals.
Now that we know what it is physically, we should also know that a
woman's orgasm is not an automatic response to sexual intercourse. In
his landmark 1953 report based on interviews with nearly 6,000 women,
as well as subsequent surveys, Alfred Kinsey stated that the vast
majority of women do not climax during sexual intercourse without
direct stimulation of the clitoris. Even the most recent statistics
from the Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction
show that fewer than half the women surveyed achieve orgasm through
intercourse.
Satisfaction for most women does not rely on having an orgasm; it is the intimacy she shares with her mate. Men put so much pressure on themselves and on the woman to have her climax. It is not so, as we are not wired the same way. We must be in the right frame of mind and the mood and timing must all be in synch. We have tiny little orgasms, huge foot-cramping orgasms, ear-shattering screaming orgasms and every increment in-between. It depends on how we are feeling and how the experience with our lover is.
Okay, you asked about how to tell if she has had an orgasm. Is the moaning, eye-rolling and pillow grabbing just for show, to get you to stop - or is it real? Well, here you are: it's an old wives tale, one that is not clinically proven, but has been accepted for centuries in many cultures as the definitive sign as to when a woman has had an orgasm. Drum roll please...approximately 30 seconds after a woman has an orgasm, the tip of her tongue will become cold. There. The secret is out. Now you will know if all the screaming, lamp throwing, and cursing you and everything holy is for real simply by gently kissing your lover for a while after she has cum.
Satisfaction for most women does not rely on having an orgasm; it is the intimacy she shares with her mate. Men put so much pressure on themselves and on the woman to have her climax. It is not so, as we are not wired the same way. We must be in the right frame of mind and the mood and timing must all be in synch. We have tiny little orgasms, huge foot-cramping orgasms, ear-shattering screaming orgasms and every increment in-between. It depends on how we are feeling and how the experience with our lover is.
Okay, you asked about how to tell if she has had an orgasm. Is the moaning, eye-rolling and pillow grabbing just for show, to get you to stop - or is it real? Well, here you are: it's an old wives tale, one that is not clinically proven, but has been accepted for centuries in many cultures as the definitive sign as to when a woman has had an orgasm. Drum roll please...approximately 30 seconds after a woman has an orgasm, the tip of her tongue will become cold. There. The secret is out. Now you will know if all the screaming, lamp throwing, and cursing you and everything holy is for real simply by gently kissing your lover for a while after she has cum.
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