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So, you want the inside scoop on the big O. Well, first let's find out what a female's orgasm is. According to Masters and Johnson, along with its chaotic effects on other muscles, orgasm causes contractions of the uterus, vagina, and rectal sphincter at .8-second intervals.

The hand job... what a delicate thing and at the same time the thing that some girls are afraid of most! Well, let us break it down for you and show you it ain't that bad.

In a 2001 article in the American Journal of Obstetrics and Gynecology, Pace University Professor Terence Hines claimed that the G spot is a myth. Although the spot eluded Dr. Hines (we feel sorry for his wife), it need not be for you. The G spot is not really a spot; it is really a ridge of erectile tissue that surrounds the urethra and the para-urethral glands, and stimulating it leads to powerful orgasms, often including the ejaculation of copious amounts of fluid in many women. Although G spot is a modern term, coined by a Western gynecologist, it was described in Indian erotic texts written more than a millennium ago.

We went to the streets of New York to interview young, sexy women about what they want from their men in bed.  After many slaps (and a few phone numbers) we compiled the best nine tips to help our fellow mankind in the sack.  Just remember guys, with great knowledge comes great responsibility.

Answer these twelve questions to assess whether you may have a problem with sexual addiction

1. Do you keep secrets about your sexual or romantic activities from those important to you? Do you lead a double life?
2. Have your needs driven you to have sex in places or situations or with people you would not normally choose?
3. Do you find yourself looking for sexually arousing articles or scenes in newspapers, magazines, or other media?
4. Do you find that romantic or sexual fantasies interfere with your relationships or are preventing you from facing problems?
5. Do you frequently want to get away from a sex partner after having sex? Do you frequently feel remorse, shame, or guilt after a sexual encounter?
6. Do you feel shame about your body or your sexuality, such that you avoid touching your body or engaging in sexual relationships? Do you fear that you have no sexual feelings, that you are asexual?
7. Does each new relationship continue to have the same destructive patterns which prompted you to leave the last relationship?
8. Is it taking more variety and frequency of sexual and romantic activities than previously to bring the same levels of excitement and relief?
9. Have you ever been arrested or are you in danger of being arrested because of your practices of voyeurism, exhibitionism, prostitution, sex with minors, indecent phone calls, etc.?
10. Does your pursuit of sex or romantic relationships interfere with your spiritual beliefs or development?
11. Do your sexual activities include the risk, threat, or reality of disease, pregnancy, coercion, or violence?
12. Has your sexual or romantic behavior ever left you feeling hopeless, alienated from others, or suicidal?

If you answered yes to more than one of these questions, we would encourage you to seek out additional literature as a resource or to attend a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting to further assess your needs.

See ya there :)

People often ask what it takes to become a better lover. In many cases, this question is based on a premise that there are specific techniques and abilities that can be learned and that mastering these techniques will guarantee success as a lover. This misguided belief has spawned a huge industry - sex manuals, how-to books and instructional videos - as if sexual prowess could be developed with a paint-by-numbers approach. There is nothing wrong with sex manuals and instructional materials. There is great value in learning techniques and developing skills, but skills and techniques can only take you so far.

Many men want to know, "How can I last longer in the bedroom".  I need more staying power.  *If you have a medical problem with premature ejaculation (ejaculation before it is desired), your doctor is the first person you should see, as there are medical causes for this.  If you want some non medical advice on things the average Joe can do to be the best he can be, then here goes...

Importance of staying power. If a man satisfies himself, without satisfying his woman, then he will find that she will lose interest in sex.  You will eventually be replaced, at least in her fantasies, if not worse.  So you owe to each other as a couple to work on it.  Openly, honestly, and discreetly, as a loving couple.

Are you sexually tongue tied?  Can you really open up to your partner and tell them just what you want? Read on if you would like to learn how to open up the lines of communication for talking about sex.

Now  for most couples in this day and age, they are not entirely happy with their sex lives.  What is it that they are looking for?  If you ask yourself this question I am sure that you could come up with an answer.  If not a whole answer at least the start of something that you are feeling.  So what they are seeking could be more passionate sex, more interesting sex or just plain more of everything?